[xwl] Update to kwaylandserver changes

Summary:
Change so we track track and set a DataSource instead of a DataDevice

This means we have to reverse a connection:

• we need to update Seat with our selection only when our selection is

received by the DataDeviceInterface

• we no longer need to track and watch a dataDevice for changes after

the seat emits selectionChange

Change so that we handle an AbstractDataSource. Meaning we can paste
from clipboard managers.

Testing done:
There is an existing xwayland-selections_test
This still passes.

Copied from:
wl-copy(wlr) to firefox (x)
firefox to wl-paste
firefox to kate (wayland)
kate to firefox

Reviewers: KWin, zzag

Reviewed By: KWin, zzag

Subscribers: cblack, kwin

Tags: KWin

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.kde.org/D29332