Currently most of our QML apps are not complex enough to need something like editable toolbars, but that will likely change in the medium-term future.
Currently KXmlGui is closely tied to QtWidgets, but QGuiAction/QGuiMenu in Qt6 open some new possibilities here. Maybe it would make sense to have some of the "backend" code like loading stuff from XML shared between QML and Widgets apps.
This is just a rough idea though, I don't have a detailed plan/proposal right now.
There is also some prior art for editable QML toolbars at https://invent.kde.org/libraries/kije